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Wednesday 27 June 2018

One Of Those People

A few days ago, I was leaving Starbucks and walking across the parking lot to my car when I noticed a woman walking toward me, staring intently, like she knew me. I didn't recognize her which isn't entirely uncommon since I'm relatively new to this community so I made a comment about the sun being in my eyes to which she replied I really love your pants.



 


And then she asked if they were lightweight and then she asked where I'd bought them. I let her touch the fabric which is cotton and said I'd made them. She replied oh, you're one of those people and walked away almost angrily.

The various ways that people respond to my creativity is always interesting. It's almost like I'm saying I'm a pastor and they begin their confession with a list of "reasons" about why they couldn't possibly do what I do. The one I find the most interesting is the implication that I somehow have more time than anyone else or that I am not spending my time on things that really matter because if I were, I too wouldn't have any time.

I believe that life is about relationships - with God, with myself, with my family, and with others - and relationships are my number one priority. Within the description of my healthy relationship with myself, being creative is a nurturing, supportive, encouraging, absolutely critical key part of how I function. Without creativity, I am not myself and not much fun. I don't have more time for creativity than anyone else; I make time.



 


The pants are from The Sewing Workshop (no longer on their website) and the top is Katherine Tilton's Butterick 5891. This outfit was made at least five years ago. I've sewn the top several times and the pants at least a half a dozen. That's one of the fabulous things about being one of those people - LOL - we can create exactly the garment, the outfit, we want and then use that pattern again and create an entirely different one and only we'll know.





There is no pattern for this t-shirt. It's a hybrid of two of my favourite shapes that resulted in a three piece pattern instead of a five piece one while maintaining the fit and flare I prefer. This version is made from a silver ribbed knit (although you can't see the glitter in these images) that I picked up in the bargain center for $2.00 per meter making this a $3.00 t-shirt. YES YES - another delight of being one of those people.

I've been looking for knit fabrics in a print and so far not finding anything I really like. I think one of my 52 week challenges will be to paint an all-over design on a t-shirt with the pieces already cut out. That sounds like fun although it'll have to wait until the yard work is more complete.

Talk soon - Myrna

Grateful - to be one of those people

28 comments:

  1. I think she was just seriously envious - not just of the perceived time you have to sew but of your skills. Also she can’t just waltz off to the mall and buy a pair of pants just like yours! Heh. Nice to see you back, Myrna!

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    1. Thanks for the welcome back. I'd love to find a way to encourage people forward from seriously envious toward I can do this too.

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    2. Thanks for the welcome back. I'd love to find a way to encourage people forward from seriously envious toward I can do this too.

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  2. I tend to agree with the previous comment. I think people objectify creative people, to make themselves feel better, only it backfires, revealing their insecurities. What makes me sad is that people like you the lady you encountered seem to be the culturally supported norm, and living in a healthy, creative way with oneself and others and life is seen as marginal.

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    1. It takes a lot of thought and deliberate choice to live creatively and out of the supported norm. In my experience, most people aren't willing to actively shape their own life and to put important long term over urgent short term. It's hard work.

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    2. It takes a lot of thought and deliberate choice to live creatively and out of the supported norm. In my experience, most people aren't willing to actively shape their own life and to put important long term over urgent short term. It's hard work.

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    3. Amen! Craftmanships takes a lot of work!

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  3. A couple of days ago, I was just thinking about you as I pieced a bunch of interfacing scraps to fuse to my jacket facing. I'd always wondered if that was a thing, and you were the first person I saw do it (in a very distant past blog post). SO, as I was thinking of you, I was also hoping that you had not permanently gone silent as a blogger, since I enjoy reading about your creative process, thoughts, and projects so much.

    And when I opened up my Feedly the next morning, there you were!!! Hooray!!!

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    1. How fun. Thanks for thinking about me and I'm glad you were able to use the scraps. We paid for them too and I do so love to get my money's worth from all of it. I've been working on using up the fabric scraps as well only they seem to be never ended. I just asked a friend who builds puppets if she'd like the ones I can't figure out and she was thrilled so it's win-win.

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  4. A couple of days ago, I was just thinking about you as I pieced a bunch of interfacing scraps to fuse to my jacket facing. I'd always wondered if that was a thing, and you were the first person I saw do it (in a very distant past blog post). SO, as I was thinking of you, I was also hoping that you had not permanently gone silent as a blogger, since I enjoy reading about your creative process, thoughts, and projects so much.

    And when I opened up my Feedly the next morning, there you were!!! Hooray!!!

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    1. How fun. Thanks for thinking about me and I'm glad you were able to use the scraps. We paid for them too and I do so love to get my money's worth from all of it. I've been working on using up the fabric scraps as well only they seem to be never ended. I just asked a friend who builds puppets if she'd like the ones I can't figure out and she was thrilled so it's win-win.

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  5. The world is going to hell in a hand basket, as my mother used to say. Why on earth did that woman have to be so dismissive? We have lost all civility.

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    1. She wasn't rude to me, just walked away in a frustrated sort of way with an overtone of angry. Who knows. Perhaps she did realize she could be "one of those people". I find that so interesting because I know from experience it's an entirely possible journey. I started out following the pattern exactly, without deviation, with only one right answer, and it's my investment in my creativity that has taught me the ability to think differently. I love when I can teach that.

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    2. She wasn't rude to me, just walked away in a frustrated sort of way with an overtone of angry. Who knows. Perhaps she did realize she could be "one of those people". I find that so interesting because I know from experience it's an entirely possible journey. I started out following the pattern exactly, without deviation, with only one right answer, and it's my investment in my creativity that has taught me the ability to think differently. I love when I can teach that.

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  6. I'm glad you didn't feel that she was rude and disrespectful - which was my interpretation on reading your account. Seeing someone as part of an "other" ("those people") seems potentially very dangerous. They ARE nice pants.....too bad the pattern has disappeared!

    ceci

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    1. I was surprised the pattern had disappeared. Hopefully I missed it or it comes back as it's quite a nice trio of garments. I think whatever feelings that lady had were more directed inward, as if she'd run up against this before, and so it had that almost angry overtone. Perhaps the message she's receiving is to become one of those people, especially if she's attracted to clothing that feels more her. I know that's a huge draw for me.

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    2. Hi Myrna, I am also glad you are back. Check the latest McCalls pattern book...there was a pants pattern just like this in there when I went to fabricland yesterday.
      Barb from Prince George

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    3. Thanks. I'll look for it next time I'm down at Fabricland.

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  7. I'm glad you didn't feel that she was rude and disrespectful - which was my interpretation on reading your account. Seeing someone as part of an "other" ("those people") seems potentially very dangerous. They ARE nice pants.....too bad the pattern has disappeared!

    ceci

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    1. I was surprised the pattern had disappeared. Hopefully I missed it or it comes back as it's quite a nice trio of garments. I think whatever feelings that lady had were more directed inward, as if she'd run up against this before, and so it had that almost angry overtone. Perhaps the message she's receiving is to become one of those people, especially if she's attracted to clothing that feels more her. I know that's a huge draw for me.

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    2. Hi Myrna, I am also glad you are back. Check the latest McCalls pattern book...there was a pants pattern just like this in there when I went to fabricland yesterday.
      Barb from Prince George

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    3. Thanks. I'll look for it next time I'm down at Fabricland.

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  8. I love being one of those people too. :)

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  9. Somehow this world was created and continues to be created. When we are creative, we reflect
    that supreme act of creation.

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  10. Somehow this world was created and continues to be created. When we are creative, we reflect
    that supreme act of creation.

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